Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little girls are
practising 'wifely functions'! Just visit the boys'
hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that
it is now common for a girl to live in with a course
mate. It is now common for her lover to give her the popular compliment 'you look sexy my gal' and she
would gladly reply 'thank you honey' with a flirty
voice and a romantic smile. Who is her lover? A 300
level student whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they
are aiming for the next best couple award for the
session by the departmental association. So, the girl need to live in with him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls suddenly loose
their senses immediately they gain admission. I've
seen that some of them have no more sense of caution,
honour and dignity. They would change their
wardrobes and acquire a new set of make ups just to look 'campussy' and sexy enough for the guys. In
months, they would start sleeping around with little
boys. I mean boys who collect pocket money from their
uncles! Dirty boys who most of the time are infected
with sexually transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to
know that you were sent to school to obtain a degree not a disease. The campus is called a school; school not
sex! You are on campus to receive education not
ejaculation. You are here to master the use of a pen
not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up girl! Do some
thinking. Your future is greater than the 'best couple
award'. You cook for a boy you are more intelligent than. You
give your virginity to a boy who will definitely leave
you after graduation. You play wife to a boy who
cannot even care for himself. Oh, you have given too
much. Enough! Open your eyes! Can't you see you're
being foolish? You are passing through the fears of unwanted pregnancies yet you are opening your legs
to a coward who cannot stand before your father. And
when you eventually gets pregnant, he would brutally
advise you to abort it and you would timidly agree;
then face the consequences later. What a shame! You
may master the use of condoms but you can't master the punishment of your conscience.
Don't you know you are bringing shame to your
family? Don't you know that you are cursing your
mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even a
man) without her consent? I cautioned a girl against
sleeping around and she replied 'me', I don't sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have and am faithful
to him'. What impunity! That's classified harlotry. And
don't you know that sleeping with a man without your
father's blessings is bringing a curse to your future?
What happened to your cultural values? Somewhere in
your heart you know he would use you and dump you; so why are you setting up yourself for a
heartbreak? I want to remind you that you are a lady
and one day you may get married. And your husband
would know that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps
with anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady
would give to her husband on the wedding night is her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the certificate of
best couple of the year on campus! The other gifts for
the rest of her life are her care and character not her
curves and complexion! Real men know this; so, get it
screwed in!
Those treacherous boys would call you 'sexy' and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch your breast and
you would smile? They would ask you out and you
would oblige? Oh, you are indeed a mistake. Am not
saying that you should be rude or never live a 'social
life' but I want you to think deeper than you are
currently doing. I want to turn your attention back to your books. You are not in school for breast exhibition.
So, pay less attention to those boobs and give more
attention to your books! You are not in school for cat
walking show. You are rather here to show us the
dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove to us
that you are costly. So, why make yourself so cheap? I am writing this with both love and p
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